Monday, December 31, 2012

Infatuation, lust, attraction, love or simply a game of power?

As I grow in age and soak in new experiences with each passing day, one observation is standing out true in all interactions between any two entities, be it among human beings, animal kingdom or even non living things. It is always a fight of supremacy or assertion and invariably its the powerful who has the last laugh. Questions of justice, morality stand a chance only if they are asserted by a stronger entity. MIGHT is ALWAYS RIGHT.
I try to illustrate this fact with respect to love between opposite sexes. Culturally we have been programmed to look at love as a tender emotion between two souls. Love is looked through the hallowed glasses of spirituality, sacrifice, purity and a slew of other higher emotions. However nothing can be farther from reality. Love is purely an assertion of might by one sex and subjugation to it by the other sex. To give few instances of it, a girl no matter how wretched and deprived of easy virtue she might be always dreams of a handsome hunk.Given a choice between two individuals, one who is physically not as endowed and having simple looks and manner but who has stood by her in her good and bad times and the other one who has just entered in her life but is physically superior to his counterpart, is of good looks and has a way with words, the girl will invariably choose the second one provided constraints of society and morality doesn't affect her decision. This is so because mother nature is thus programmed that it always tries for betterment of specie by creating best off springs. So, the chances of yielding a better offspring is more with a combination of good and bad than a bad and bad.
The same holds true when a wretched and miserable man is given a choice between a plain lady who has sacrificed a lot for him and an attractive and voluptuous lady who has just entered his life.
I can state it with so much conviction because I happen to be that simpleton who served a lady and also sacrificed a fair bit for her, but all this while she was having her share of pleasure with other men who were endowed with better physical and facial features and were at a better position of power.
So, all those simpletons who are religiously serving your lady love don't expect that your sacrifice will be reciprocated. She will dump you at the very first provocation. However I also know that you guys are mentally weak too and emotionally so enslaved by your leading ladies that you will continue being a faithful dog to them despite seeing with your own eyes what they are up to.